Did you know that your thoughts are actually instructions to your subconscious mind?
What you say in your mind matters. If your thoughts are scattered, or you are not clear on what you want, then your subconscious is also confused and does not really understand what you want.
Imagine giving the waiter confused instructions on how you want your food. Is it fried, or boiled, or grilled. Is it with veggies, or rice. Its not clear, and he cannot get you what you want.
Same thing is happening with your life, whether its success, or more money, or to have a great relationship. You must be very clear on what you want, AND your thoughts have to be on that. I mean, you can not be thinking how hard it is to be successful, or to be financially free, or whatever it is you want. You must be thinking of how good it is to be –to have-to do do- whatever it is you are striving for.
People are often confused with the Law of Attraction, because in their minds they are requesting what they want but in reality they are saying things like;
“I don’t want to work years to be successful”, or ” I have to work really hard to have……”, or “it hard to find the love of my life” and guess what, because their thoughts are instructions to the subconscious and the subconscious mind is actually YOUR GENIE, it follows your instructions, then it is going to be hard. You subconscious mind will make sure that the path is hard, and you don’t recognise the easy ways, or take action in the easier path.
Knowing the way your mind works, your job is to give CLEAR instructions on what it is you really want. And make sure all those thoughts that are not serving you well, are not happening in your mind. Make sure you stop the beliefs that are saying “its hard, its impossible, I can not….”. STOP the limiting beliefs.
The best tool for changing limiting beliefs is Emotional Freedom Techniques*, EFT, and to help you change those limiting beliefs, here is a tapping script for changing or eliminating a Limiting Belief, so that you can give instructions to your subconscious that are in line with what you want.
Stop Limiting Belief
On the Side of the hand:
Even though I have the thoughts that its going to be hard, I accept myself.
Even though I have the belief that its not easy, and that keeps popping up in my mind, I love and accept myself.
Even though I have the belief that its not that easy to be: successful, in a great relationship, rich,……. fill in whatever for you, because this is the belief to shift, I totally and completely accept my self and who I am.
and on the points,
Its hard, its not easy,
its going to take a lot of work
I am not sure i can do it
I am tired of trying
I mean I really want, …….. but its going to be hard,
I don’t know how, other may know, but I don’t know how–its hard,
Put in your own words, here tapping all the negative thoughts and belief that its hard. It may take several rounds.
When you feel the belief is now lighter, and maybe its not so true, start with,
I wonder if its possible its not that hard,
I wonder if its possible I am complicating things
I wonder if I already know pretty much how to do it
I wonder if I stop saying its hard, if it will be easier,
Is it possible for me to to say it may be easier than I think
In fact it probably is easier than what I keep saying to myself,
Is it possible if I change my words, and say “I can”, “I will”, I will be more empowered and enthusiastic about doing it.
I choose to make it easy on me,
Because thinking its going to be hard is not helping me, and it is not a fact, its my belief
I choose to believe that I can do it, and its going to be doable.
I choose to believe I am able to do this, because that is much better than thinking I can not or its hard,
I am choosing thoughts that help me have what I want, and I totally and completely love and accept myself.
This tapping will help you change your beliefs, and your negative thoughts to positive ones, and I do recommend you add in your words, and work on each belief separately, till your default thought is changed to one of believing you can have what you want, and you give your subconscious clear messages.
I love to hear from you, and how Changing Your Beliefs has changed your life.
to your happiness,
*If you are not familiar with tapping, and need to know the points please go to www.ttapt.com
Note: EFT, often called Tapping often brings up other emotions. By doing this you take full responsibility for your health and wellness. If you feel more stressed, please continue to tap, and ask for help from a trained EFT person.